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Ho-ho-hold on a minute…

November 27, 2007

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At the church where I worshiped last Sunday, the leaders of the service had decided to get a jump on the Advent season. I understand the impulse. Oftentimes, Advent begins on the Sunday after Thanksgiving, and particularly given that the marketplace has had us awash in Christmasy stuff since before Halloween, it’s not too surprising that some folks are raring to get their Advent on, even though the season doesn’t begin until this coming Sunday.

Surprising, no, but a little disappointing.

I try not to get too crabby or soapboxy about the commercialism of Christmas, and how it seems to begin earlier every year. I figure it’s probably not going to change anytime soon, and so instead of griping about it, I work at discerning what I can offer in the midst of it: words, images, spaces in which folks can pause and ponder for a few moments before heading back into the holiday fray.

Still, my liturgical self is casting a vote in favor of church being a place, perhaps the last place, where Advent and Christmas come in their own good time. This sacred season of anticipation, preparation, and waiting is precisely a season that invites and challenges us not to be grabby with time. Jesus, the flesh-wearing God, took a full nine months (and untold millennia) to get here.

I think we can wait a few more days to start the party.

Having said all that, I definitely don’t feel a need to be a Christmas fascist; I won’t listen at your door to see if you’ve already listening to carols on the radio. God knows that most of us could use a good celebration. It’s practically December, we’ve got Thanksgiving (literally) under our belts, and I think it’s a fine and wondrous thing to be getting into the holiday spirit. Moving into Advent, though, is more than that. The season, which prepares us for Christmas but is not the same thing as Christmas, invites us to hear beyond the holiday hype; it challenges us to listen beneath and between and around the copious external stimuli, so that we can begin to discern and welcome the God who is seeking to be born in our midst and in our very own selves.

These last few days before Advent are also the final days of the year, liturgically speaking. In the cycle of Christian time, Advent marks the beginning of a new year. So this week is a threshold, an in-between space that invites us to ponder the year past and to look toward the year to come. As we cross this threshold, what would you like to carry with you from this nearly finished year? What do you want to leave behind? As we lean into the season and the year to come, what do you desire for the days ahead? What will you give your energy to? Where will you look for the God who is yet to be born?

Happy almost Advent to you.

Cover Girl

November 25, 2007

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Okay, maybe it’s true that you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover, but I think it’s fair to say that at a literal level, if we’re talking about actual books and not metaphorically applying the aphorism to people, a compelling face often provides a good suggestion about what the inside holds. A comely cover, or sometimes just an appealing spine, is almost always the first thing that prompts me to pull an unfamiliar book off the shelf. While a “good cover-to-good contents” correlation may not always hold true, I’ve learned it’s a better than decent bet that if the face of a book catches my attention, its innards will be worth a gander as well.

I’m posting this from my parents’ home, where books—and a supply of intriguing book covers—abound. I’ve been hanging out here over the Thanksgiving weekend. This holiday is always a big reunion time for the Richardson relations. These past few days of paddling around the gene pool have included the annual Thanksgiving feast that nearly everyone in our hometown comes to, along with lots of out-of-town folks who come back for the festivities. We normally have our noontime chowdown in the community park, but this year, for only the second time in the feast’s half-century history, we got rained out of the park. Fortuitously, the local United Methodist congregation completed the construction of a fellowship hall earlier this year (its first building project in almost 100 years), and, while eating pecan pie isn’t quite the same indoors as under sunny skies, it was another splendid gathering.

I’ve lingered with my folks in Gainesville, grateful for the chance to spend more time with family and friends over the weekend and to catch up on my sleep. I’ve been poking around my parents’ bookshelves while I’ve been here. Many of the books were part of the landscape when I was growing up; I imagine lots of them arrived in the magical book boxes I wrote about previously. This weekend I pulled out some books whose spines had caught my eye on earlier visits. They contain collections of poems by Ogden Nash, the 20th century poet known for his agile handling of light verse. I first became acquainted with him through some of his short poems that I’ve heard my Dad recite, such as his “Reflection on Babies.” (“A bit of talcum/Is always walcum.”) Nash also brought us “Further Reflection on Parsley” (“Parsley/Is Garsley.”) and “The Cow” (“The cow is of the bovine ilk; One end is moo, the other, milk.”) If you know only one Ogden Nash poem, it’s probably this one, which occasionally gets attributed to Dorothy Parker:

Reflections on Ice-Breaking

Candy
Is dandy
But liquor
Is quicker.

The Nash books on my parents’ shelf were first published in the 1930s, 40s, and 50s, and there’s something about their simply designed covers that my eye finds really pleasing. Even their spines, cozied up together on the shelf, form an appealing line. When I pulled out one of the volumes on this visit, I was intrigued to see that the jackets were designed by Maurice Sendak. It was one of those occasions where I could see it once I knew it; the images are pretty different from his other work such as we find in his famous book Where the Wild Things Are, but it’s certainly kin.

I haven’t spent enough time with the appealingly attired Ogden Nash books to know whether they bear out my general rule that a good cover suggests good innards (although they did provide some enjoyable recitation and conversation at the dinner table tonight). But I’ve enjoyed this confirmation of what good covers can do for good books (and sometimes not-so-good ones), and how books are more than just words slapped on pages sandwiched between two boards. Some books are presences over time, part of the landscape that helps orient us in this world; they offer a visual feast that can sustain us even if we only infrequently partake of what they contain.

This holiday weekend, I give thanks for that.

Could You Become a U.S. Citizen?

November 12, 2007

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Gary and I had dinner at the home of a couple of friends this past weekend. One of them teaches at a local college. As part of a project, one of her students brought a copy of the list of sample questions that the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services may ask of someone who is taking the exam to become a citizen of the United States. We went through many of the questions ourselves, which prompted a lively conversation around the dinner table (and a visit to Google).

For you folks who were born into U.S. citizenship, how many of these sample questions can you answer? (The numbering is from the list of questions; the answers are below.)

19. How many changes, or amendments, are there to the Constitution?

26. For how long do we elect each [U.S.] Senator?

27. Name two senators from your state.

28. How many voting members are in the [U.S.] House of Representatives?

29. For how long do we elect each member of the House of Representatives?

35. What is the Bill of Rights?

39. Who is Chief Justice of the Supreme Court?

40. What were the original 13 states?

63. What did the Emancipation Proclamation do?

75. Whose rights are guaranteed by the Constitution and the Bill of Rights?

80. Name one right or freedom guaranteed by the First Amendment.

89. What kind of government does the United States have?

Answers:

19. Twenty-seven amendments

26. 6 years

27. The answer to this question depends on where you live. [In Florida: Mel Martinez and Bill Nelson.] [Visit the U.S. Senate website]

28. There are 435 voting members in the House of Representatives. [This number is figured proportionally based on state population.] [Visit the U.S. House of Representatives website]

29. For 2 years

35. The first 10 amendments to the Constitution

39. John G. Roberts, Jr. [Visit the U.S. Supreme Court website]

40. Virginia, Massachusetts, Maryland, Rhode Island, Connecticut, New Hampshire, North Carolina, South Carolina, New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Delaware, and Georgia

63. The Emancipation Proclamation freed the slaves.

75. All people living in the United States

80. The rights of freedom of religion, of speech, of the press, of assembly, and to petition the Government

89. A Republic

I paid a visit to the website of U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services this morning. Ever had occasion to wonder what you’d need to do to become a citizen of the U.S., or apply for a green card, or what you’d do if you were a refugee or seeking asylum? Check out the “How Do I?” section at the USCIS site.

On this Veterans Day, I’m offering a prayer for all those who have come to the U.S., for those involved in making hugely complex decisions about immigration, and for our relationships with the wider world. A blessing upon the veterans who have given themselves to helping make this a place that people yearn to call home.