Ascension/Easter 7: Blessing in the Leaving

Ascension II © Jan L. Richardson

Reading from the Gospels, Ascension Day: Luke 24.44-53
Reading from the Gospels, Easter 7, Year A: John 17.1-11

Throughout this Easter season we have seen how the gospel lections have emphasized the theme of knowing: knowing the risen Christ, knowing what he has done for us and to us, knowing what he desires of us and calls us to do, knowing what he is preparing for us—and preparing us for. The fact that most of the gospel readings for the Easter season take place at a table underscores the intimacy that comes in knowing—in knowing Christ, in knowing God, in knowing one another.

This theme of knowing reaches its stunning apex in the gospel texts for this week. The reading from John’s Gospel draws us once again to the table where Jesus has lingered with his friends on the night before his death. He finishes their final feast by praying for his disciples. In his prayer, Jesus is knowing all over the place: “And this is eternal life,” he says, “that they may know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent….I have made your name known to those whom you gave me from the world….Now they know that everything you have given me is from you; for the words that you gave to me I have given to them, and they have received them and know in truth that I came from you.” Then Jesus, who knows these friends so well, releases them into the world and into the care and protection of God, who has known them from the beginning.

In the reading from Luke for Ascension Day, we see the risen Christ appearing one last time to his disciples. He opens their minds, as Luke tells us, “to understand the scriptures,” and he impresses upon them that what was written about him, they have seen with their own eyes. Jesus then takes them to Bethany: this place so familiar and dear to Jesus, the place where Mary and Martha and Lazarus lived—his close friends who knew and were known by Jesus. And from this place Jesus leaves, blessing his beloved companions as he ascends.

As we spiral back around these stories this year, what still takes hold of me is this: how Jesus prays for and blesses his friends as he leaves them. How the leaving is part of the blessing. As if the blessing can happen no other way than by his departure, by his letting go of the ones whom he has loved—these ones whom he will never cease to love but must release into their own lives, so that they may enter into the blessing and enact it on this earth.

This week provides a good occasion to remember that the English word bless comes from the Old English word blod—blood, referring to the use of blood in ritual acts of consecration. The blessing that Jesus gives as he goes is one that will infuse the community with his love, his grace, his lifeblood. He gives a blessing that will run in the veins of those he has called to be his body; a blessing that will beat in the hearts of those whom he is sending into the world.

As we prepare to leave the season of Easter and cross into Ordinary Time, what blessing do you need? What word or gesture of grace and love do you need to infuse you and sustain you to be a blessing in this world? Is there a blessing that might depend on your letting go, on releasing something—or seeking to be released from something—so that there will be a space for the blessing to enter?

Blessing the Distance
For Ascension Day

It is a mystery to me
how as the distance
between us grows,
the larger this blessing

as if the shape of it
depends on absence,
as if it finds its form
not by what
it can cling to
but by the space
that arcs
between us.

As this blessing
makes its way,
first it will cease
to measure itself
by time.

Then it will release
how attached it has become
to this place
where we have lived,
where we have learned
to know one another
in proximity and

Next this blessing
will abandon
the patterns
in which it moved,
the habits that helped it
recognize itself,
the familiar pathways
it traced.

Finally this blessing
will touch its fingers
to your brow,
your eyes,
your mouth;
it will hold
your beloved face
in both its hands,

and then
it will let you go;
it will loose you
into your life;
it will leave
each hindering thing

until all that breathes
between us
is blessing
and all that beats
between us
is grace.

—Jan Richardson
from Circle of Grace: A Book of Blessings for the Seasons

P.S. For a previous reflection on this passage, click the image or title below:

Ascension/Easter 7: A Blessing at Bethany

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9 Responses to “Ascension/Easter 7: Blessing in the Leaving”

  1. James Semmelroth Darnell Says:

    Thank you for this post. The aspect of leaving in the Ascension really strikes me. The Ascension Blessing really speaks to me as well, just beautiful.

  2. Kate Says:

    Blessing @ Table….indeed….

  3. Jan Richardson Says:

    Many thanks, James and Kate!

  4. Annie Says:

    As someone who lives in a transitional community and has to say goodbye all the time, this blessing really touched me. Thank you.

    • Jan Richardson Says:

      Thank you, Annie! I can imagine that living in a transitional community offers keen challenges as well as invitations to figure out how to say good-bye well. Thank you for your words, and I wish you blessings and peace as you navigate the comings and goings. And thanks for your delicious blog!

  5. Gayle Says:

    Thank you for the beautiful Ascension Blessing. It speaks to me of the promise of the resurrection and the joy of knowing that those who have left us continue on in grace with our Savior.

  6. Susan Bauer Says:

    Thank you, Jan. As one who still grieves the loss of her husband 8 months ago, this blessing’s double entendre touches my heart, as, perhaps, it touches yours also. YOU have been such a blessing on my recent journey. Thank you, my friend.

  7. Janine Says:

    This is the second year anniversary of my husband’s attack – and we let him go into the light on May 31. So, in a way, the ascension has a dual meaning for me (maybe always now). The space between us has grown but the grace and miracle of our love has grown equally. I am considering what hindrances I am holding onto. I know how difficult it is to let go.

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